Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Sweetheart

 Yesterday read articles, is an ability alone, you like it? First, to others. . .
People often viewed as a communication ability, but also an ability to ignore alone, and in a sense more important than the ability interaction. Conversely, of course, not good communication is a pity, intolerance alone is also something that is not a serious flaw.
Alone is a capability, not a person can possess at any time. Have this ability does not mean that no longer feel lonely, but rather content with loneliness and make it productive. There are three people in the lonely state. First, insecure, hopeless muddle, Pepsi mood, bent on escape loneliness. The second is getting accustomed to loneliness, under the heart, and establish a structured life, with reading, writing or other transactions to expel loneliness. The third is a poetic loneliness itself into the soil, creating an opportunity to induce on the existence of life, the deep self-reflection and experience.
Solitude is a beautiful life moments and wonderful experience, though some lonely, lonely in but there is a substantial. Growth alone is the soul of the necessary space, alone, we withdraw from others and out of affairs, returned to his. At this time, we be alone with yourself and God, began with his mind and with the universe, the mysterious power of dialogue. The strict sense of the soul of all life is carried out in solitude. Talk with the others that this ancient, quote the classics, it is chat and discussion; only immerse themselves in the masterpieces of the masters through the ages, the only genuine spiritual insights. Sightseeing tour with the others, it is just tourism; that the only way to face alone the vast mountains and the sea, the only truly feel the communication with nature.
From a psychological point of view, people of the need to be alone is to carry out internal integration. The so-called integration, is the experience of the new internal memory into a proper position. Only through this integration process, external self-image in order to be digested, can also become a self-independent, the growth of the system. So, without the ability to be alone, a person can really relate to the formation of a relatively self-contained inner world, which will in turn affect his relations with the outside world.
How to determine whether there is a man of his When you left alone when you are feeling bored, unbearable, or is it felt a peaceful, fulfilling and satisfying?
For love alone and nothing to do with a person's character, who also love alone could be a lively personality, like a friend, but no matter how happy he was to interact with others, always alone necessary in his life. In his view, a lack of communication of the life course is a defect, a lack of life alone is just a disaster.
There is no one can stand absolutely alone. However, people who absolutely can not stand alone but is an empty soul, man. Some of the world is such, they fear most is being alone, so they and their few moments, for they are simply a form of torture. As long as the idle down, they must find a place to go to recreation. Flies on the surface of their very busy day, in fact, most of their inner emptiness. They did everything for face to face trying to avoid seeing yourself. I only have one explanation for this is that even they themselves feel their poor, and so is the poor stay with the top of their meaningless, and then boring pastime is also much more interesting than this. The result is that they become more scarce, more is not his own, forming a vicious circle.

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