Advice 1: a child not afford to lose! Teach one, for the benefit of three generations!
Everything a parent, I suddenly found that children are not educated and embarked on a ramp, immediately feeling kind of wiped out. < br> A reporter investigating the crime of corruption of some middle-aged cadres, their criminal motives turned out to be for the children. Originally, they were busy career, neglect their children's education, the end, always feel that they owe their children, trying to material form to make up for their children's education a failure. this is not a good result.
Perhaps you are a very good leader, able to manage the millions of people in the city; perhaps you are a very successful businessmen, to create millions of tens of millions each year; perhaps you are a very outstanding teacher, you have students everywhere; but if your child's education is not successful, could not be truly successful.
child is your , more is the country! child's good or bad decisions of our nation and the country's future! a child, not afford to lose! a better education for the benefit of three generations!
the success of any child's education can not make up for failure!
Advice 2: do not teach poor children, only do not teach parents.
farmers let the shortest crops wither, good parents let the the attitude of crops to determine the fate of the crops, the attitude of parents towards their children, often determines the fate of the child.
crops farmers want to grow quickly and parents want their children to the feelings of the early talent of the feelings are exactly the same way it can be often different.
farmers thoughts all the crops need? how to satisfy the needs of the crops? parents to educate their children sleep at night, there did not think the child soul needs? how to meet the child's spiritual needs?
crops grow well, farmers never complains crops, on the contrary, always to find the reasons. children learn not, many parents are blindly blame, rarely thought about their own responsibility, rarely find themselves reasons.
changes in the external environment, the farmers are aware of the need to change methods of cultivation; social environment changes, the parents are thought to update the concepts of education do?
perhaps parents are not genius, but genius can become parents. parents can not select the child, but can change the attitude of educating the children. attitude changed, and the child's fate may be changed dramatically.
not teach only the parents do not teach poor children!
Advice 3: for their own Life will always be proud to create.
even if all the world look down on your children, do parents have to appreciate him in tears, hugging him, praise him, to create their own lives will always be proud of.
my daughter Zhou Tingting deaf ears since childhood. full of chemists has little effect on the way out can only be a school for the deaf. I have studied the various ancient and modern education, and finally awakening: Every life is a miracle of the universe's hidden potential In each child's body, the secret of education is to recognize differences, abilities.
Although Tingting deaf ears, but I firmly believe that the universe has been embedded in the potential of disabled young daughters body.
my daughter The education is boiling my father, turned into waves of spring, just sowing, expecting nothing, never believe that my daughter OK! miracle, Ting-ting on the normal primary school, two grades; was named National Top Ten Young Pioneers; 16-year-old boy became the first deaf college students, 23 year old American master degree. and I the Lao Sanjie junior high school graduates, but also the first time ever into the so-called education experts.
growth of the child's life roads as runways and battlefield, parents should shouted: all look down on your children, do parents have to appreciate him in tears, hugging him, praise him, to create their own lives will always be proud of!
Advice 4: Education and treasure recovered.
parents who are educators, please retrieve a forgotten treasure.
Why do children learn to speak when learning to walk, were good, not a bad kid, one hundred percent successful? which actually bears the mystery of what kind of education do? < br> children speak vague, we think of the future a clear speaking children; children walking Waiwaidaodao, we think of their children's future vigorous pace. At that time, parents believe their children line! to recognize differences and allow to fail. < br> Parents teach children to allow the failure of the education process, full of selfless love, reflects a positive state of mind, implies a firm belief! is because of this love, attitude and beliefs, so that each child learns to speak, learning to walk are in a kinds of happy, happy genius status.
happiness and treasure!
appreciation of education is to teach kids to speak, learning to walk, education!
parents were all educators, please retrieve a forgotten treasure!
Advice 5: The children love their children must first understand .
instincts parents love their children, the key is to understand children will love mm.
Chinese parents love their children too, but tend not to love. love child is a parent's instinct, the key is to understand the children will love mm !
secret is to understand the child's parents to understand that every child who seems to have hidden two guys, one is the what happened is not good. to understand the child's parents wake up the words and deeds are in the Love is not enough to know how to love, the child has a good state. do not know love, love become victims. Now, some parents do not understand the tragedy of education a child, in violation of law to teach children, not ; pressure seedling resistance appreciated so that the child is getting better.
appreciated so that children and more, complaining that the child worse.
heart of each child as if two guys: one is the good boy, a is a bad kid. understand the mystery of the child's words and actions of parents can wake up boy. If the parents do not understand children, a love have become the victims, will extract a bad kid. the children are characterized by not wasting brain cells, it is quiet. people uneasy, the heart is not static; people a safe, quiet heart, rest energy of wisdom. a quiet state of the child, studying is the natural. as farmers plant crops growing green crops, good harvest is not immune.
will be able to wake up thinking their parents have a good good boy, bad thinking will extract a bad kid. good thinking and bad thinking essential difference is how parents view the child's fault! parents to children as per cent of the benefits nineteenth, the child was appreciated, even if the criticism, the children know you are good for him. by leaving the child room to grow one, always indicate the way forward for children!
result of successful education is a good wake up Oh children, failed to extract a bad boy a result of education. appreciate the kids getting better and better, complaining that the child worse.
Advice 7: first awakening, then wake up.
life of every child is the parents state the true portrayal of the attitude of parents when their children change, changes will result in the child's fate.
Tingting three and a half Shihai not speak a word, when I read a book called books about Japan, Mr. Suzuki educators teach children to speak with the method, a year to train 700 peer level of Mozart violin prodigy in the world by storm.
I think Mr. Suzuki of normal intelligence can not exceptional children into the violin prodigy, why can not the daughter of my deaf ears trained child prodigy it?
Tingting Tingting or the original, not changed; to read this book, I Tingting view had turned upside down. In the past I think the daughter of deaf ears as long as there is to eat growing up, my father's death will be able to close the eyes. And now I firmly believe that the universe of potential defects in the body of my young daughter in.
hope all parents awakened by my daughter to grow through education to understand: We can not choose the child's talent, but we can choose the child's attitude, the attitude of parents when their children change the fate of the child turned upside down will occur change.
Advice 8: forced only bring resistance.
education must stimulate their interest in learning to protect the child's thirst for knowledge, the knowledge of happiness to children.
Why do not kids interest in learning?
educator Tao Once people make a report to an old hen into the podium, said: said the old hen's wings, grabbed to eat chicken rice, the old hen Touyi Wai, do not eat. Tao said: , the old hen head held high, a rather die than surrender the way, that is, do not eat.
Tao said: old hen's feathers, touch its head, the old hen slowly quiet down, suddenly found in front of meters to eat, rushed to put the rice eaten look.
with the parents let children learn, like not to be old hen to eat rice? knowledge could have been the greatest joy on earth, but forced by their parents alienated. child from a natural love of learning, became a hate learning, spoon-feeding education, the sea tactical is a typical strong to be a mother hen eat rice, do not want their children to eat hard food, the child's appetite for knowledge was destroyed!
interested in is the best teacher, do not just stare at points. Education must stimulate their interest in learning to protect the child's curiosity , the knowledge of happiness to children.
Advice 9: that you can, you on the line.
br> children slow, as the future of our fast, fast is slow in the students; child neglect, we as adults and careful, is crude and raw fine; children timid, as the future of our bold, small in Johnson; children with poor academic results, we as a future good, is bad in for good; treat with this appreciation of the shortcomings and weaknesses of children, the children are not afraid of making mistakes, and now it will not change the line into the future.
more timid child, the more eager bold; more carefully careless child more eager; the more slow-moving children more eager to move fast; if it is about his timid, careless, Which pot do not open the tender spot, a negative enhancement. as hair bald few people talk about the issue, who can bear?
No, the line is not OK, the child lives most of the demand for invisible mm appreciated. children appreciate their parents incentives, the potential will be like a volcanic eruption.
Advice 10: looking for feel, taste the sweetness.
let the children taste the sweetness of success, not to eat bitterness of failure.
wake up boy's first move is to find feeling, looking feel? feeling of looking good boy! to keep in mind young children sow the seeds of genius, let the children in the trick is to taste the sweetness of the children taste the sweetness of success, not failure to eat bitterness, and now the old parent's education to the children suffer, too much emphasis on the child hard to be successful. suspected child sleep, but also heavy hammer knocking the drum sound. So the question came out, the parents all day staring at the child's shortcomings, weaknesses and shortcomings: that do to the responsibility. And my education is that they provide her daughter's taste as sweet as a child, the success will be to work on. parents of the child should . > Advice 11: The importance of the spiritual needs of children.
material is a small child emperor, so what's to Han; spirit is a small slave, not free.
Guizhou has a pair of twin little sisters, life is very rich in material life families. But is this pair of beautiful little sister was poisoned 3 times and eventually died of poison in front of their own parents! Why?
I went to the prison to visit them and see them simply cute, sadly cried, the parents themselves do not understand children, but also compromised himself Hailehaizi. I want them to all parents to write a paragraph, they write down in tears: really understand the child, the child needs most is not the material needs, but spiritual needs. Can you give us a little freedom? may explode.
today's kids are little emperors material, so what's to Han; spirit is a small slaves, not free. In fact, given the parents did not give, should not be given to too much. the child's inner world and the material world as like a seesaw, a serious imbalance in the!
Advice 12: Do not let the with God's standards to close the child, the parents are not perfect themselves, but want their children to perfect! children can not be good because the child is too tired to wake up too tired.
mentality in which parents are often not allowed to fail, do not tumble down the line. children one mistake, one blew, teachers, students, and even father and mother looked down on their own.
parents educate their children learn to talk, learning to walk, why not tired when? Because recognition of differences, allowed to fail. Flowers are early morning opening of the U.S. Open, later opened a late start in the United States, each have their own good, late opening of the flowers may be more beautiful. to the parents lack of Our flowers have not opened? break apart, the results become dead flowers!
demanding parents treat a child can not be perfect, to treat that poor children can not beat him to death.
Do not let the boy was tired, for children to make mistakes, mind stretch children really love to learn from it have staying power!
Advice 13: thumb, erected.
not use the thumb of a nation, from an educational point of view is a sad thing. for our children, let us put up thumb!
me the other muscles are developed, only the thumb muscles especially well developed. daughter from small to large, as long as I'm around her, my thumb always in front of her dangling.
different fingers have different meanings. Some parents used to pointing with the index finger poking the child; the other children are so smart, how do you stupid?
in the hearts of children , the thumb is I said, son to concentrate on homework, what we are used to coax a scare tactic, or is not working. a last resort, the son of homework, and I took turns with his father before him a knife to force him. the results of learning did not go up, kept the children pressing in a reform school hh
not say incredible advantages and disadvantages of the less gradually less.
invisible life as the Yi Keke children's fruit trees, fruit trees have fruit branch (merits), but also the stems (shortcomings), the eyes staring at the parents complained that not long fruit of the stems, the stems will be soaring, parents appreciate the eyes on fruit branch, the fruit branches will be longer and strong, the final fruits.
parents used to think that; advantages not say ultimately, the disadvantage is not that incredible .
want their children to move fast, always said the child slowly;
hope that the child care, children and old that careless;
want their children to bold, timid old said the child;
want their children to wise old said the child stupid.
The result is that the shortcomings of the child but has been strengthened. often also harm the child's self-esteem.
and appreciation of education, argues just the opposite; not that incredible advantages and disadvantages of the less gradually less. < br> warning 15: tofu mouth, iron-hearted.
the face of unreasonable demands of the child to calm attitude, but do not adhere to the principle of compromise.
today's kids do not listen, stubborn temper. In fact, the parents, , a soft heart, Fight, fail, then struggle to find: The original father and mother are paper tigers! invisible life malnourished children, will turn to obtain physical life, which is learning bad kids, parents requested more material reasons. sharp tongue, a soft heart mouth, iron heart. the face of unreasonable demands of children, attitudes to be calm, but insisted that principle is not compromise. principles like high voltage, that can not touch can not touch. But the calm and rational attitude, and not trample on the child's self-esteem, children with emotional harm.
mouth does not control the parents, treat children with vent their emotions, do not adhere to the principles, their is no prestige in front of children at all, they only serve of education, unruly kids.
Advice 16: the frustration, when the passbook.
how much a person can withstand the suffering, the cause can accomplish much.
children grow, not be smooth sailing, always run into trouble like that, when parents To encourage children to not fear failure, give the child the wisdom of life; the frustration, when books, of suffering, for the treasure.
a little girl just learning to skate, carefully, cautiously, or fall legs in the air, the little girl sadly sitting on the ground, looking around tearfully beautiful gesture. At this time, a big brother holds her up and said gently: , and fell 50 times wrestle you learn. More recently, the number to 21, the girl no longer have the number down, because she has learned.
do not be afraid to fail than to fail one step further, because the child has failed to see the nature of Now is the future success of failure. frustration is the most precious spiritual wealth!
education experience Tingting told me how much a person can withstand the suffering of the cause can accomplish much!
Advice 17: the success for Inn.
bent on success of children; successful expansion of failed repression; to concentrate on growing children, and can withstand frustration, full of happiness, the success of sustainable development!
now Why do not kids happy? is a man since ancient times parents want their children to the Master, want their children to succeed, if success criteria to measure the child is successful, easy to be complacent; failed, and no staying power. to see results on the ranking, so that Most children who have become a servant. servant children who are depressed, they feel Hello I'm bad, live too boring. Some children get good grades, good to think that a good percentage, I became a man Master , supercilious, end up deserted, isolated. some children while others the Master, while one servant, so that the child is more painful, like glass, one will be 40 degrees above zero, one will be minus 40 degrees, they might explode The small age, who became an outsider. who the Master, one servant, the children were outsiders, are you hate me, I hate you, hate to hate to hate themselves, their dissatisfaction to others dissatisfied with society dissatisfaction with the inner voice is what I hate you.
appreciation of education proposed: the success, as post stations, each successful, are growing up a break point.
successful easy to stop, and growth is endlessly the. child's life, are always walking in the growth of the road.
parents to look on the child's growth, the child's life on the stretch of the state.
Advice 18: Playing is learning, learning is play. < br> children is a fun learning greed, will play the child will learn.
play and learning is one thing, the children love to learn playing the children will be learning to play the child is a child. play into divisions, bitter as Carpenter: play, they can nurture a master craftsman can only produce only bitter. Throughout the ages, the real masters are playing out.
children learning fun is greed, will play the child will learn. < br> Having fun is child's nature, rural children Wanni Ba, is also a learning experience. For children, life is the best education. to play in this highly creative period even more important. the parents because the child can not be fun and give any of the accused child, it is a sin. Children read books to learn is the greed, the greed is to learn to play the computer.
why the children do not love learning? because we separated the study and play, the learning becomes bitter, the children fear; better parents do not let the children play, the result, the children also play a bad play, learning can not learn. repression has become strengthened, but is a temptation prohibited. to play, let the children very much love to play; school so that children learn in peace heart heart. This is consistent with the law of education.
do not play and learn against each other, with their children should br> warning 19: re-process the results of light.
a lot of parents picking up a lot of sesame seeds, watermelon is lost.
moment of achievement and children good character, good attitude compared to the former is sesame, The latter is watermelon.
parents driven by utilitarian mentality, often too much emphasis on the sesame seeds, while the lost state of the child's life, the number of test points? a daughter, the first sentence is: feel good? how are you feeling? If the daughter in a bad mood that she's invisible life of , tastes. the child feel good, be happy and easy to fly, or climb can only be painful and slow.
parents understand the education law, the state should focus on whether the stretch of the child's life. Parents educate their children in the process science, children learn to be happy, live happy, good results are inevitable.
educate their children according to law, there is no good to worry about a good process.
Advice 20: play like? pull to high? < br> farmers to plant crops, as long as willing to pull out, crops certainly high? but why not pull the peasants?
in the end can not beat a child? how many parents are confused on this issue.
it seems to be asked: Can farmers pull crops? farmers to plant crops as long as willing to pull out, some crops are high; that parents educate their children, as long as willing to play, the child will score better.
but why not pull out the crops of farmers? because they know how to rule, overstating the crop is false high because the root is broken, lifeless.
play out the same good results, but also a good fake, the children learn in fear, even hate learning. This study, at the expense of the child's interest in learning at the expense of No stamina.
parents starting point is the attitude of farmers to grow crops: according to law!
Advice 21: first to accept, after sublimation.
a man more hated his own defects, the defect the greater the damage to you.
parents often can not tolerate the shortcomings of the child, in fact, the child's growing every day, it is likely the shortcomings of the biggest advantages is the future.
treat a child's shortcomings is the best way: first to accept, after the sublimation. accept that premise, the child learns to talk When clear, no matter how articulate; learning to walk, no matter how Waiwaidaodao, parents are full and unconditional acceptance.
child learning to walk, just like the original test, the test suck, like a fall and and encourage him, help him up, his last will go well.
the face of the child's learning, the attitude of parents to be a big problem.
learning to turn, treat their children the kind of learning to walk attitude, the more the child stumble and fall, when parents will have to give children more love and tolerance.
not sublimation, but only accepted, it becomes a conniving child. to accept the child's nature is to respect and maintain the natural, which , but had to take the initiative to sublimation, and guide the child to identify the knot disease, to success.
Advice 22: melt in, lured out.
into the child mind, out of misunderstanding of Education.
a long time ago a prince, got a strange disease: always feel that they become a big cock, cock school day hiding under the table Who can cure the prince as long as disease, heavy and be rewarded. a tramp exposing the list, his assurance to the king: eyes to shine: the to call the prince jump, he also follow the jump, play a few days after the big cock, vagrants and melt into a prince, the two became good friends. One day, suddenly homeless drilling out from under the table: big cock, and I want people slightly! first melt in, and the children empathy, the boy will be lured out of you.
into the child's mind, out of misunderstanding of Education.
Advice 23: Solutions to knot, the heart of prison.
the biggest flaw of parents to educate their children is: stay away from life, talk about life.
today's kids IQ, high self-esteem, high sensitivity, high vulnerability, a good mood, a good hundred good; mood for a bad end of that. parents and then children growing up every day encounter a variety of troubles, no one to help them to promptly resolve, and slowly becomes mind. heart was a bit like it close, hold back stool in the stomach, not a few days discharge has been too much for opinions, let alone the long years of knot, knot can not be more and more time to resolve, long-term stagnation, cell, the child's soul in torment in hell, get out to.
more smart kids, the more vulnerable, the more likely the formation of knot, and even to the heart in prison. I found that more than 90% of poor results the child is definitely not mental problems, but mood problems, heart was the problem, prison is the problem.
child's growth can not be no trouble, is the responsibility of parents to continue to resolve the child's knot, let the children grow up happy and relaxed. < br> warning 24: Fu trauma, heart disease treatment.
many children look unruly willful, in fact, not because they are teachers, parents did not get her way.
I asked her: Uncle Zhou do not want to talk? Because deep down you feel is not good boy! your chest pain, hurt, attack people, to seek a balance, right? grievances. with Uncle Zhou friends? ; bad guys lower requirements.
goals set too high, kids are prone to give up; goals to just right, let the children jump jump, reach it.
Tingting childhood abacus added from 1 100, is the class most slow. come back to me: . I added from 1 per 10 100 answers written on the wall, Tingting 10 per dozen for the whole family applauded for her, 10-story full-ride complete, self-confidence found. Tingting finish 10 times, the whole family cheering her 10 times a round, low self-esteem, fear swept away. abacus of Tingting had feared, the next day said to me, Dad I like abacus in front of you. because I Tingting requirements reduced, each time from success to success, she found in me a sense of security. less than a month, the first one Tingting abacus class.
many children lack self-confidence, the root causes of poor performance are the parents of children hopped and reach it, put a big goal into several small projects, so that children from success to success!
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